Trigger Exercise
Rate the triggers that are most prevalent in your life on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the highest and most reactive and 1 the lowest or least reactive trigger. List any triggers that are not on the list and rate them as well. From your list of 10’s, please choose your top 4 triggers.
Inferior Disrespect Insensitive
Failure Disregard Ungrateful
Sadness Corrupt Distracted
Fake Hateful Undependable
Mean Disbelief Skepticism
Bossy Aggressive Unsupportive
Gossip Fearful Disorganized
Aloof Aimless Predictable
Slow Prideful Complicated
Doubt Negative Irresponsible
Absent Blaming Demanding
Boring Careless Mistrusting
Discord Arrogant Unbalanced
Risky Miserable Discouraged
Apathetic Ignorant Demoralized
Disloyal Critical Withdrawn
Deficient Offensive Thoughtless
Coward Enslaved Unconscious
Weak Powerless Withholding
Rude Annoying Unsuccessful
Timid Intolerant Inconsiderate
Stingy Dishonest Unimaginative
Decline Irreverent Unappreciative
Despair Judgmental Antagonistic
What are the opposites to your top 4 triggers that align with your values? (click here for Values Exercise)